Instead of Hate and Fear

What’s desired is most scorned. “I could’ve told you that” said Beatrice. And Kellerman. And Keggerman.
Remedy: Take the advice for the most scorned and apply it to what you fear.
Observation: Advice comes fast and easy for what you hate.
Note: None of this happens at a meeting.
Romantic Notion: Take the unknown around what you fear. Apply it to what you despise. To counter anxiety. To counter antipathy.